“You will know that forgiveness has begun when you recall those who hurt you and feel the power to wish them well.” (Lewis B. Smedes)

Forgivenss means different things to different individuals. To some, the act comes easy; yet to the majority, not quite so. I wasn't always quick to forgive. In fact, in my youth, it was all about pointing fingers. And even while, I only had 10, I was the harbinger of judgement and bitterness.

Yet not so long ago, I stopped. I started to think about J&S; and how they both would feel being caught in the crossfire of
tongues. I wasn't a prayerful person, but I was eager for guidance. And because God and Buddha saw I wanted to be better that things got to where they are now.

Instead of wondering when they will change, I willed myself to forgive and let go of the past. And as I come a day closer to seeking forgiveness, I pray that I will be strong enough to make amends. This is what is on my mind a lot nowadays.