In the last six years, I have formed no lasting romantic attachments that surpassed the 200-day mark. Often friends would deduce this as
picky, prickly and flighty! (God forbid they could not have picked a trio of more salacious terms.)
Truth of the matter, not one of my 50-something FDs tickled my fantasy/fancy long enough to have me look up from the pages of the invisible book of celibacy (it doesn't exist). If my curiosity wasn't piqued to barest minimum after FD, then I walk on: NO HARM, NO FOUL. The more mature I got, the more I stayed solid to my list of compromise-ables, non-negotiables, and where my P2H aligns. Such things take time.
It takes a lot more because I expect no less than what my idealism permits, and that is the best! The rule is to make exceptions only for the exceptional man. But hey, I am human too. As easily as I get turned off, one thing's a sure firestarter in my book...
It takes a lot more because I expect no less than what my idealism permits, and that is the best! The rule is to make exceptions only for the exceptional man. But hey, I am human too. As easily as I get turned off, one thing's a sure firestarter in my book...
MINDFCUK!!!
This is when a man slinks his way into the room and into my life without the use of the typical lock and key. Not the way of the trousers but the path less treaded. The amusing path of least resistance with all the ongoing wit-WOWing.
Irresolute debacle of my mental modalities meshes with flesh.
It is a realisation that is neither under- nor overrated in these parts.
Irresolute debacle of my mental modalities meshes with flesh.
It is a realisation that is neither under- nor overrated in these parts.
MANgels walk the crazytowns and being that MINDFCUK seems to be on no one's priority list, I'd like to emphasise how it's top shelf on mine.
But of course, not everyone thinks practical albeit racy thoughts. But I'm not everyone. hehe
MINDFCUK admittedly takes longer but penetrates at a much deeper scale. Impatience is not part of the MINDFCUK skill set. While the impatient decide to prey on conveniently easier targets, the MINDFCUKer enjoys the extended period of delayed gratification. Time is of essence and it takes a lot of it before someone is deemed MINDFCUKed. One must pick her partner with ease to enjoy the sparring to magnanimous proportions. Otherwise, boredome sets in and becomes sadly a waste of one's efforts. You don't have it with everyone you date and you shouldn't force it on anyone you date. It's a subtle line to temper so play carefully.
Should you not have it then I will tell you not to go through this exercise and not bite off more than you can chew.
True...a semblance of raw intelligence serves as the main fodder for MINDFCUK. Not to sound like it's intellectual snobbery (it's not), the exercise is not strictly an IQ/EQ thing. A mish-mash and more, more like.
A MINDFCUK conversation is never made at someone else's expense. Especially not directed at people not sharing the conversation. It is a very "laughing with"experience. It isn't meant to make fun but to tease and tickle...and in all the right places. A seduction that is meant to magnetise the recipient rendering him spellbound.
MINDFCUK is not to be confused with the overrated and commercial mind game. The latter is an UBERconfusing exercise to which pseudoromantics submit to. Often thought to incite excitability and appears satisfying on the onslaught when it really does not. This is something I don't indulge in. I don't get what's fun about keeping someone guessing about what's on your mind. All that aside, I honestly have no predilections for unreliability and gaming someone.
A MINDFCUK conversation is never made at someone else's expense. Especially not directed at people not sharing the conversation. It is a very "laughing with"experience. It isn't meant to make fun but to tease and tickle...and in all the right places. A seduction that is meant to magnetise the recipient rendering him spellbound.
MINDFCUK is not to be confused with the overrated and commercial mind game. The latter is an UBERconfusing exercise to which pseudoromantics submit to. Often thought to incite excitability and appears satisfying on the onslaught when it really does not. This is something I don't indulge in. I don't get what's fun about keeping someone guessing about what's on your mind. All that aside, I honestly have no predilections for unreliability and gaming someone.
I can't begin to state the importance of MINDFCUK in relationships. When you know you're with someone who flares brain cell activity and get those axions going, it's a sureball way to get bedroom action to a sizzling upward trail. The interplay of brainplay and wordplay (and okay, maybe a li'l cosplay now and then...) makes couple play (you+he) the dynamic pair to be reckoned with. More than just titivation, it is THE titillation equation. The ability of MINDFCUK to outlive novelty and the throes of physical attraction should likewise be taken note of. I always say- do not think twice if there was an interesting MINDFCUK potential. Indulge and enjoy wholeheartedly. Laugh out loud and engage... all in!!!
When you find him in the end, celebrate your one-in-a-million mate!
The coming together of an exceptional woman, an exceptional man, and a well-brewed romance. Alongside the novelties of this cosmic continuum and finding that rare kind of love that is exceptionally extraordinary.
The coming together of an exceptional woman, an exceptional man, and a well-brewed romance. Alongside the novelties of this cosmic continuum and finding that rare kind of love that is exceptionally extraordinary.
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